Why Do I Procrastinate ?

  So, Why do I Procrastinate ? There is not necessarily one simple answer to that question, as much depends on the personality and needs of the person asking the question. Granted, for some, they may procrastinate because there is no real desire or need to do...

Why Don’t We LISTEN ?

Once we learn to talk, it seems like we become so enamored with the sound of our own voices, that we never learn to LISTEN. In my work as a therapist, that is my number one tool to help people, JUST LISTEN. If I take the time to draw out of the other person what is on...

A Child Abused, What Would You Do ?

This trip to San Clemente was another eye-opener. I came here to spend time with my grand-kids, but also to research and work with organizations that attempt to help children who are being abused, emotionally, physically and sexually, and often all three. I have found...

Selfish, Self-Serving and Abusive

As I read my last Blog entry entitled ” Fear…It Rules Our Lives !”, I almost did not publish it as it seemed to harsh, even for me. I wrote in Sunday, but held off publishing until Monday with the idea that I might soften it up a bit. Then, I got an...
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